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How to decode your cat’s behaviour

The RSPCA reveal what it all means.

Humans may think they own a pet cat, but in reality, cats have pet humans. It’s a cat’s world and we just live in it to ensure they’re fed and watered on time, and their kitty litter is clean.

However, for those who don’t own a confident, comfortable and extroverted cat, or have just adopted a rescue cat, or even just got a new kitten, you may be trying to decipher exactly what your cat’s behaviour means.

Fortunately, the RSPCA has created a handy guide for you to follow. Check it out below

You cat is relaxed if…

  • Their head is raised
  • Eyes are open and soft
  • Whiskers are relaxed
  • Ears are forward
  • Tail is held up high in greeting in greeting and may have a little curl at the tip
  • They are distributing their weight across all four feet evenly
  • Might be meowing

You cat is ready to play if…

  • Ears are forward
  • Whiskers are forward
  • Front paws are extended or swatting
  • Eyes are soft and open with no pupil dilation
  • Tummy in the air and legs stretched out
  • Tail might be twitching
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Your cat is scared or startled if…

  • Tail is held high or low and out from the body
  • Ears are back or flat
  • Whiskers pushed forward
  • Back is arched
  • Eyes staring
  • Mouth is open and hissing

Your cat is afraid if…

  • Body is lowered
  • Ears are back or flat
  • Tail is low
  • Eyes are staring
  • Mouth is open and hissing
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Your cat is aggressive if…

  • Body lowered
  • Ears back
  • Whiskers flat to face
  • Pupils are dilated
  • Mouth is open and may be hissing
  • Paws swiping
  • Body positioned so they can easily use their legs defensively or roll away

You cat likes you if…

  • Use their head to rub against you
  • Sit on you or near you and knead with their paws
  • Follow you from room to room and around the house
  • Putting their bottom in your face
  • Showing you their tummy while laying on their back
  • Slow blinking at you

Your cat is stressed if…

  • They are going to the toilet in all the wrong places, or experience pain while doing so
  • Lots of meowing and vocalisation
  • Excessive grooming or self-harm
  • Decreased appetite
  • Hiding, hissing or growling
  • Sudden aggressive behaviour

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